Do I Enable? – 7 Characteristics of an Enabler
1. Consistently blames self: “If I were a better parent/grandparent/friend, my loved one wouldn’t be doing this.” 2. Changes the environment to accommodate the person with the problem. “Let’s change schools and get our child away from those troublemakers.” 3. Shields their loved one from consequences. Lies, makes excuses for, and creating alibis for a loved … Read more